On Mastering the Moment
Posted by Leonard WilliamsAug 20

From the instant my identity sparked into “Being” at 4 years old, I can distinctly remember having the crystal clear thought’s in that moment in time, “Who am I?” “What am I?” and “What am I doing, right now?” (In the thoughts and vernacular of a four year old.) And, if those questions weren’t enough to bake the noddle of a 4 year old, they were immediately followed by “Seriously, who am I?” “Seriously, what am I?” and the most important question to me at that time was “Was I even a who or a what before this moment in time?”
Seeking the answer’s to understanding that moment in time became my carrot and stick in life, little did I know, finding the answers would be the booby prize
, it was however the beginning of my journey into “Mastering the Moment”.
The first thing there is to understand about mastering the moment, is…there is only the moment, and nothing else. One could say that life is an omni-present, multi-dimensional, ceaselessly flowing field of all possibility. Said another way, life is a series of moments strung together, only experienced in the occurring as a right now phenomenon, period. The concept of linear time is an illusion, a man made mental construct to mark and keep records of our existence. The past never existed, the future hasn’t happened, there is only, right now… and right now… and right now. If you can wrap your head around that, you’ve got a shot at “Mastering the Moment.
“What do you mean, the past never existed? I know it did because I remember it! You’re crazy!”
Really, consider this. In the “occurring” of the past, it was the present. You and I relate to the past as though it were some place we could travel to with our notions of “time travel” and such, the ruthless rules of reality dictate, that simply isn’t true. The past only really exists in the memory of those who experienced the “occurring” event or have some memory of the “story” of the event (and of course in our writings).
“Leonard, this heady stuff is great, but what is the practical application to mastering the moment?”
That heady stuff was to serve as a background of relatedness for you to understand this. You have the power to choose any state of being you wish and all you ever had to do to experience it (in your occurring moments) was to call it forth (to be experienced by you right now).
When we move into any moment, we rarely do so with our state of being determined “ahead of time”. Instead, we wait to see: One, how the moment shows up for us. Two, how others are re-acting to the moment. Then, at the speed of thought, a judgment or assessment dictates “who” we get to “be” in that moment and more important than that, how that moment gets experienced by us.
What if you took the point of view that you were going to determine “who” you were going to “be” before the moment showed up? What if you took the point of view that you were going to be loving, ahead of time? What if you took the point of view that you were going to be excited, ahead of time? Do you think that point of view would alter the way you experienced that moment? Said another way, do you think that point of view would alter your occurring of that moment?
You bet it would!
I can hear the Cup-O-Joe gallery saying to me as I write this: “Leonard, I could simply meditate to experience mastery of the moment. I could ride a bike, jog a 5k or do an activity that is pleasing to me, to experience being excited or loving.” Yes you could, and all of these things are great. The conundrum in this, is that one can’t do these things all the time, all day long. It would be impractical to attempt to meditate, ride a bike or jog a 5k all day every day to get to experience mastery of the moment.
(Critically important to the understanding of this writing) When one chooses the moment to move into ahead of time, they shift the axis of their experience of that moment from being “at the effect of” to being the “cause of” their experience of that moment, and that very simple act of creation will alter their occurring.
Here’s why: Meditation, jogging a 5k or riding a bike all live in the realm of doing something to get to a state of being. One can not do excited, one can only be excited. One can not do loving, one can only be loving. Remember this always, what you are being is who you really are, not what you think you are, nor what you are currently doing. You are not a “human doing” you are a “human being”.
Learning to master the moment begins with the acceptance of the responsibility of being cause in the matter (of the moment) of one’s own life and that is the beginning of mastery of living. True mastery in life is a continuous contiguous secession of these moments.
It is my opinion that: “True nuggets in life can be experienced by seeking out and playing with those who are looking for the meaning to life. Run, run very fast, away from those who say they have found it.” You may quote me…
Seek the teacher who tells you, he has not the answer to your questions in life and points to you and says “but you do.”
The age of the single messiah to come along and change the world has long since passed. For the collective called “Humanity” to evolve and graduate from it’s infancy to adolescence, a global shift in awareness is what’s needed. You have the answers to all you could ever want or need in life contained within you and all you need to do to have access to them, is remember.
I hope you enjoyed this Cup-O-Joe
I am of the belief that nothing I write is true. My writings are nothing more than the rantings of a pseudo eclectic and are therefore only “my point of view” to be tried on or not, with no more thought than you would try on a coat for functionality in your life.


35 comments
Comment by Angela on August 21, 2009 at 2:15 pm
This edition of Cup-O-Joe is Amazing!! Nice work, as always……
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Comment by Pat on August 21, 2009 at 2:20 pm
Can I get set up to get your “Cup of Joe” notes – they are great! I find them through Angela, don’t want to miss any of them!
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Comment by Elmo on August 25, 2009 at 8:09 am
Thank you, I needed that!
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Comment by Patricia M on August 25, 2009 at 8:10 am
Thank you.
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Comment by Christina S. on August 25, 2009 at 8:12 am
On Mastering the Moment
“thanx i will
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Comment by Cassandra B on August 27, 2009 at 10:39 am
Leonard,
Thanks for sharing—Master the Moment was very interesting! It was funny as well to read it especially after recently taking a humanities class. I walked away from my class thinking about all the moments in History such as the Greeks, the Eygptians, the Renaissance, and our modern society is all built on what was experienced and what was remembered.
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Comment by Michael G. on August 28, 2009 at 10:12 am
Helpful and well-written! Thanks, Leonard.
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Comment by Celeste W. on August 28, 2009 at 10:13 am
Goes down easy with a latte and bagel.
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Comment by Leon W. on August 28, 2009 at 3:48 pm
Great Blog Leonard. I found it very insightful and illuninating.
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Comment by Leonard Williams on August 29, 2009 at 6:56 pm
Thanks Bro. I appreciate that!
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Comment by Leonard Williams on August 29, 2009 at 6:58 pm
Goes down easy, got the acknowledgment!
for the support.
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Comment by Leonard Williams on August 29, 2009 at 6:59 pm
Thanks, that means a lot!
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Comment by Leonard Williams on August 29, 2009 at 7:00 pm
I know what you mean.
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Comment by Thatyane Rosa on January 4, 2010 at 7:13 am
I write about me, about my past in my blog and all I find are questions and doubts, the past influence what we are today, I still believe that my personality goes far beyond that a simple past in my writings on questions about who I am I wrote the following sentence: When I reach a final verdict on my confused heart, I’m sure I took my life in its entirety.
The human being is made of new discoveries and we are new persons every day …..
Forgive my English Please,I don’t speak very well!!!!
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Comment by Leonard Williams on January 11, 2010 at 11:37 am
You speak English well enough,
Thank you, for your contribution.
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